What makes someone a great leader? Is it power, intelligence, or strength? In the Quran, Allah teaches us that the best leaders are those who are kind, gentle, and merciful.

In Surah Aal-e-Imran (3:159), Allah says:

“Because of the mercy from Allah, you [Prophet] were gentle with them, but if you had been rude and hard-hearted, they certainly would have deserted you.”

What Does This Mean?

This verse teaches us that:

• Kindness keeps people close. The Prophet (ﷺ) was successful because he was gentle, not harsh.

• Harshness pushes people away. If we are rude or unforgiving, people won’t want to be around us.

• Mercy is a gift from Allah. If we are kind, it is because Allah has placed mercy in our hearts.

How Can We Apply This in Our Lives?

• Be gentle with others. Whether at home, school, or work, kindness makes us stronger.

• Think before you speak. A kind word brings people closer, while a harsh word pushes them away.

• Ask Allah for a soft heart. The best leaders, friends, and family members are those who show kindness.

Why Does This Matter?

This verse reminds us that success is not about being strict or controlling—it’s about leading with love and mercy. If we want people to listen to us, we must treat them with respect and patience.