Have you ever given someone something—maybe money, food, or help—and then later reminded them about it? Or maybe you felt proud and wanted everyone to know what you did? Allah teaches us that true generosity is about giving with a sincere heart, expecting nothing in return.

In Surah Al-Baqarah (2:262), Allah says:

“Those who spend their wealth as directed by Allah, and then don’t follow it with reminders of their generosity, and they don’t cause hurt; their reward is with their Lord and they will not fear or grieve”

What Does This Mean?

When we give, we should do it purely for the sake of Allah—not to get praise from others or make someone feel like they owe us something. If we keep reminding people of what we did for them or make them feel small, we ruin the kindness of our gift. True charity comes from the heart and is given without expecting anything back.

How Can We Give in the Right Way?

• Give and forget. Once you’ve helped someone, move on. Don’t remind them of your kindness.

• Don’t expect praise. Give because it’s the right thing to do, not because you want attention.

• Remember that Allah rewards sincere giving. Even if no one else sees your kindness, Allah does—and He never forgets.

This verse reminds us that real generosity is quiet, sincere, and free from pride. When we give with pure intentions, Allah promises us peace, security, and reward.